Ep. 13 - One Of Those Bells…
People have been on and on forever about what signs you get when you fall in love. Some talk about bells, others about a rush, there’s also talk about lifting, flying, a click… Are any of these mandatory? What if I feel ticklish? Does it mean the person gave me a rash instead of me falling in love?
I wonder if there are categories like: if I heard bells and he heard bells then it’s meant to be, because if I heard bells and he felt a click then it’s not love but only a fling. Should bells only fall in love with bells and rush only fall in love with rush such as cat people should only marry cat people?
What about the combinations? You can feel a click combined with a lifting sensation. Maybe the bigger the combination, the bigger the chances you get in the game of love!
These questions started coming to my mind… again… after another failed date that had every sign of becoming more than just a date. I kept waiting for the lid on my jar of jam to pop into a click sound, but nothing happened. For a moment I felt a growing hard on, but that’s hardly a sign of love at such a stage.
What are we supposed to feel? And in the absence of other feelings, does a hard on count when you’re looking for love?
November 21st, 2007 at 13:32
Last week I heard one of those bells… and the guy did too! Actually a whole lot of bells may I add… But unfortunately the fairytale did not go far… I tend to go after complicated scenarios. Last night I was left wondering “what if…” and I slipped myself under the warm blanket on the sofa, and let myself get depressed just for a little bit…
Oh, and I guess the hard on is just the icing on the cake when it comes to falling in love, don’t you think??
Have you noticed, my dear Calvin, that this blog has been our playground… well, desert playground. We’re the only ones commenting on each others posts… and THAT’s depressing!!!!! LOL
Luv u
November 21st, 2007 at 13:41
Let’s create alternative blogger names and comment then!!! ehehe
April 16th, 2008 at 1:26
When do you fall in love?
As the Pet Shop Boys sing it…
“You Choose”
“He’s gone
You’ve lost
Stay behind
and count the cost
You try
You lose
You don’t fall in love by chance
You choose
It’s a decision
made over time
Should you take a risk
and start to climb
the steepest hill
only to find
halfway there
you’ve been left behind?
Choosing to love
is risking a lot
and trying to change
and to give all you’ve got
But don’t pretend
it comes out of the blue
You take a chance
and see it through
and if it’s refused
what can you do?
Continue hopefully?
Start anew?
Lick your wounds
Buy your booze
You won’t get drunk by accident
You’ll choose
Don’t blame him
for refusing your bid
He didn’t decide to love
You did
Learn the lesson
Take the blows
You didn’t fall in love by chance
You chose
Play the sad songs
Sing the blues
You don’t fall in love by chance
You choose”
The bells, rush, tickling sensation, hard on… those might be manifestations for being in love but are optional
Or else, how could deaf people fall in love?
PS: As Olive would sing…”You’re Not Alone”
May 7th, 2008 at 14:18
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